If he won't break his principals, then I'll have to call off the engagement and find another man.
How can I get him to break those principles?My fiance doesn't want pre-marital sex. What to do?
Maybe if you weren't so low-class, you would have realized he might have chosen to save it for you, as a gift. Of course there's ';most women'; your age, but then there's you. No guy likes a superficial poser.
By all means, cancel the arrangement.
He deserves better.
Plus, what if he's good at sex now, but not-so-exciting in 20 or 30 years?
Would that give you a carte blanche excuse to bail on your family and home for your selfishness?
Oh, and even a woman who didn't wait until marriage isn't callous like you. Marriage is about commitment, not about your own personal needs all the time.
You're not just mature enough for marriage.
Stick with sex alone.My fiance doesn't want pre-marital sex. What to do?
Either accept his principles and respect his decision or move on.
You can't change him, and it's not fair for you to ask him to give up his morals. He's already asked you to marry him and he didn't need to ';try it out'; with you. What more do you want?
Listen to him. Your BF knows best. You should wait till marriage before having sex. This is what the Bible says. We shouldn't have pre-marital sex. Just wait a little longer you're already engaged right?
If you get him to break principles, values he holds to high esteem, eventually he's going to realize that you precipitated the event and come to resent you. Think about whether or not you want that on your conscience, if you have one.
Love is stronger than principles.when in love you can change lot of thing.
If someone say i love you but not having sex that is strange
The result of love is sex and is it so strong that no principe can stop.
The only reason is you are not having true love
I am sickened by people like you. Either wait like him or leave. If you don't want him then I'll take him.
What a shallow, mariage is not always about sex, respect his principal. if he didn't want to do it, leave him and get urself a gigolo, miss!
Just get married quicker so you won't have to wait for sex for too long..
You're not meant for each other. Its obvious that you care nothing about his principles or else you wouldnt be tryin to break them. How would you feel if he did the same thing to you? Also marriage isnt just about sex its about love commitment and sacrafice. If you didn't know that then maybe you shouldnt be getting married either.
hey there promiscuous..
i have to agree with the others..
it's clear you guys can't have a happy marriage if u can't respect his principal..who knows,maybe this conflict is just a 'prophecy' of the coming problems regarding intolerance..
so,maybe you should reconsider..even if he's bad in bed, but i'm sure you guys can work it out to make sex life better..
Wear lots of skimpy outfits until he caves in. Or respect his principals. :)
You can't.
Part of loving is sharing ideas and learning to cope with these while respecting them.
';not in this era'; - I dunno what era you're in, but as far as I'm informed, marriage is NOT all about sex, but love.
If you guys can't come together, where both of you feel comfortable with your ideals, then maybe that's a clue to not get married.
It's not about breaking but making.
To finish off, if all you're looking for is sex, you know, there are plenty of methods out there that can help you with your physiological necessities.
It doesn't seem like he is right for you, you 2 want different things
move on
Just leave him alone. Once you are married you might be surprised.
you're wrong, it's not all about sex. He sounds like a gem, you should wait for him if you love him.
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