Tuesday, August 10, 2010

I am a hindu brahmin and in love with a christian guy. How to convince my parents for marriage?

ya buddy just tell ur parents dont take any steps that would hurt ur parents........


best of luck!!I am a hindu brahmin and in love with a christian guy. How to convince my parents for marriage?
first of all love doesnt see religion


If u want to conveince ur parents their are 2 ways:-


1. Go straight to ur parents say I love a girl and i want to marry her.


2. i dont know


i prefer 1st bcaz if ur parents trust u , they will not deny. Say that i love that guy he is good, respect all religion (:P) and say i want to marry that guy but i want to tell u abouth him/her 1stI am a hindu brahmin and in love with a christian guy. How to convince my parents for marriage?
U will never b able to convince ur parents.U can't afford to lose ur best love.If u want to lead a good life with the person whom u know better,who is educated n well settled,u have to take some calculative risks.If ur man is confident n if he can stand alone by ur side for ever,i would suggest that u go ahead n marry him officially by means of registration.U need only 3 witnesses.From my experience,i can fore see the consequences.Parents from either side will jump to the roof n will disown u.But,mark my words,this is not going to b a permanent solution.People who had turned the other way around,cannot b like that for ever.Ultimately time will solve the problem n both of u will b accepted by ur respective families.
time has change and they have also.


say directly to them that you love him and wants to marry.


if the guy will fine from your parent then they will agree.


like what he does


job, education his family and etc.


do you think he have that thing what your mom and dad thinks for you after marrage.


and where you live in india.


reply then there are many ways to convince them.


ok best of lucky





and yes first of all ask the man whom you are going to marry he is ready or not .


it should not happen that he is saying no at the last time and his parents are ready or not if they are then only you talk to your parents ok first you tell to your mom and then to your dad.





best of luck
R U Sure U want to do this? Is he with U for ur money Or to get U to bed once?


R U the eldest among the siblings in your family? Then think again 10 times.


What will happen to Ur younger siblings probability of getting a good family for their in-laws?


It is very easy to throw something away rather than earn it. Having earned it, why throw it away.


I firmly believe that U should come out of this.


Why take the trouble of convincing one side only.


What happens when u become pregnant?


Who will care for U and baby? Ur mother cannot come nor will she probably let u in with her.


Don't do it. It is not worth the trouble. Just stay as friends with him and if u wish to enjoy physically, go ahead and enjoy. But after marriage, stay loyal till he tells U it is okay to enjoy with another person.





Good Luck!!!
This is your life not your parents and if they love you then they would respect your decision. Love isn't following a religion, it's respect for another persons decision. If they don't accept it then forget about them. You should be free and live your life they way YOU want...not how someone tells you to. Depends on how old you are though. If you are young and living at home then you need to keep it quiet for a while till you're old enough that if your parents don't agree you can leave. If you are old enough to be independent then move out of home...get a job...be independent and love whomeve you like.

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