How come people say I'm a pathetic piece of crap for getting in an arranged marriage ?

I'm going to get married in Vietnam and people are saying that I'm a pathetic piece of crap for getting married in an arranged marriage. How come they think an arranged marriage is pathetic when it is common in my culture ???How come people say I'm a pathetic piece of crap for getting in an arranged marriage ?
Okay. What's an arranged marriage? XHow come people say I'm a pathetic piece of crap for getting in an arranged marriage ?
people are ignorant.... arranged marriage have been around since the beginning of man.... many cultures still participate in it...good luck!
srew em', you probably got a better chance of staying married than alot of them.
Don't worry for people saying all sorts of things .





Just do what you feel is right .





Good Luck
I dont know about the 'piece of crap' part, but i can see the pathetic stemming from the fact that you dont go out and make the effort to find love and a really great marriage, you just settle for someone that has been arranged for you. I could see how some would find that pathetic. I dont really judge either way though, its not my life :) I prefered to find the perfect man for me with our personalities going together so well, but it doesnt bother me that another person wouldnt pick that route.
Because you've asked this heaven only knows how many times under different personalities. You then asked a jillion times about why your mom thinks you should wait. I mean, you are still in school, 19, have no income. I mean, come on.
no matter what steps you take, you can't make everyone happy.
Looks like the one with the German Shepherd hit the nail on the head. I've seen your thousands of questions as well like this, under assumed identities. Trolls make bad liars.