How do I talk to my mom about sex?

I am 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We are planning on having sex. It was my idea, not his; we both have very strong feelings and have been dating for eight months. We are getting birth control for me. The only problem is that I really want to talk to my mom about it, I just don't know how. She is very Christian and wants me to wait until marriage like she did. I am scared that if I tell her, she will ground me and instead of talking, will just try to keep me from having sex.How do I talk to my mom about sex?
Say Mom im horny as **** and im gonna **** my boyfreind idc what u say im getting laid kthxbai.How do I talk to my mom about sex?
Girl if you tell her, you can just say goodbye to your boyfriend. Just don't tell her. You can find the answers to ALL of your sex questions online.
Look, normally it's good to be open with parents, in MOST cases. I have to suggest that in THIS case, you might wanna keep it to yourself if she plans on you staying abstinent. Your suspicions are probably right, she'll most likely freak out, and make sure you're NEVER alone with your boyfriend. Some things don't need to be told if they're not your beliefs.
I respect your honesty to your mother, that's really nice of you. Unfortunately, this is a very touchy subject (specially to religious people), so I wouldn't recommend you to have talk with her about it.
Talk slowly slowly.
hmm.. probably not a great idea, just make sure you guys have birth control AND condoms! lol, if she'll freak out about sex.. imaging what she would be like if you were pregnant!





Anyways, good for you for trying to be open, but maybe not say anything.
being open with your mom is good but i mean, if you got pregnant(prob wont happen but cud) she wud get really mad if she just found out rite then, but if u told her before she wud still be mad but not as much, personally I wudnt have the guts to say that to my mom so ya i wudnt....
Talking to your mom before doing it might be difficult but Its the best. Adter all she is your mom and she wants whats best for you.


Unfort when I started having sex I never felt like telling her, she found out when I got pregnant (def not the best way to tell her), she was dissapointed not only because now I was pregnant but also because I never told her I was already having sex.


Your mom should be your best friend and she should understand you arent a baby and you can take your own decision just the way you should accept her advices when she gives them.


Moms somehow are always right when it comes to their kids so listen to her.


Approach the topic, and then tell her you took a very important decision and you'd like to share it with her before doing it. Ask her for her advices, and for her support.


If you already decided then its ok. Just remember you must be responsable for you actions. Better safe than sorry.
So your choices are, lie to your mother about your decision or risk getting a lecture and punishment. Go to the Singles %26amp; Dating section and jut read about the complications that people get into when they begin having sex at age 16.





I know that you think that everyone is doing it, and it would be fun, but you're really not seeing the whole picture.





There are methods of achieving gratification and release which are short of actual intercourse. Consider asking your friend how he relieves the stress when he is alone, and then offer to


handle it for him. He can do the same for you. Satisfaction without babies, Std's or stress.
Make sure you ask her when she is very relaxed. Explain to her that you love her and trust her enough to talk to her about this. Explain it was your idea to have sex, and that you are thinking about it (Not completely sure if you want to do it) Even if you are sure tell her you're not completely sure.
Oh, dear! Trust me, strong feelings are not what should be making this decision for you...Good for you you if you're actually talking about sex with your boyfriend, though. I didn't learn to talk about sex with my partner until I was married and had a kid. That means you should also have no problem talking with him about the fact that he should wear a condom too.





As for talking to your mother, your instincts are right. You should talk about it with your mother. Just as important, you should be prepared to listen. She's going to have a lot to say, you know that. Don't get upset with her when she does. Also, don't assume that she doesn't know what she's talking about just because she waited. I'm sure there's a lot more to her story than she will ever tell you.





I'm not trying to talk you out of sex, don't get me wrong. I just know that I've never talked to anyone who didn't regret their first (and probably the second, third, fourth, fifth, and so on) partner even though each and every one of them WANTED to do it at the time! It's a big decision that you can only make once in your life. If you're smart, you will treat this like any other important decision you will ever make and listen to people with ALL views, not just the ones who say what you want to hear.





And don't listen to the short-sighted fools who are telling you that you'll never be alone with your boyfriend again if you tell your mom. Things may get strict for a little while but the rules will relax in no time, just like every time you've ever been in trouble in your life. (Not that you'll be in trouble, that's just an example.)
Really religious mom + sex talk = convent
dont worry about it. u should ask ur mother what u should do. she wont punish u for it, but she will say not to have sex. but i would recommend u to wait. u might say u have strong feelings, but do u really know what that term really means? if u truely understand the meaning, then i say go for it. but just becareful. if u are unsure, its best to wait. they tell u to wait until marriage because they will now understand what their real feeling is after marriage. u dont have to wait until marriage but it is highly recommanded.
If your mom supports you in keeping abstinent, use this and don't do it. If you really want to do it, don't tell her.