patience patience patience...stay open minded and NEVER stop trying. admit you guys will have fights but never stop loving each other. swallow your pride even if you know you are right and make love as often as possible :) good luck!Marriage ???
i couldn't have said it no better than my wife Chrissy above, and lots and lots of love making
It depends on what do you expect out of a marriage life? When I got married, I didn't really know how to expect. But I knew at that time that he wasn't for me. But I did it anyway. 5 years later, we are in the process of getting a divorce. We have a 2-year old together. Nothing bad happen and no one cheats. We do not get along to begin with. People said that opposite attracts and we complemented each other. And I thought that might be true. Until today, we fought so much on the smallest issue. Just different opinions and views on things.. and different hobbies and mindsets as well...
And my marriage life living in the suburbia... not for me. Imagine going to bunco games night in the neighborhood that the women talked about whether to hold their child back a year for kindergarten or put them through full day kindergarten. About their favorite grade school teacher for the kids are switching to another elementary school. I work fulltime as an IT Analyst but I go to this type of party just to meet people around the neighborhood and listen to new gossips. From what I gathered so far, marriage life living in the suburbia is definitely not for me.
My answer is that you have to try it out before you really know if it is for you or not.
You need to have a lot of forgiveness and don't expect perfection all the time. When times are rough, don't see ';Divorce'; as a way to get out. Work it out...because for better or for worse, you're committed to him. Good luck!
Marriage is not easy...but i think that if you love, respect and honor your other half, it makes it easier. I have been married for 10 years, I would be lying if i said it has been all roses. You have to compromise, be willing to admit your wrong ( even when you know your right) and truly enjoy having the other person around. Take time for yourself and give your mate their time as well. You need that so you don't lose yourself. Being friends is very important. Never put your spouse down to anyone, and always support them, even when you don't agree. You have to have a united front when your married. Most of all HAVE FUN TOGETHER. Let your inhibitions go.
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